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--- PAGE 1 ---
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Special Issue #228 - Girl Scouts with Special Needs - Part 2 of 3
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Scouting Links Newsletter - September 19, 2003
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* * * ADVICE FROM GSUSA * * *
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The following is from
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http://www.girlscouts.org/adults/needs.html#resources:
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Girl Scouts is about inclusion. Learn the terminology. Do some research,
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using some of the resources available from Girl Scouts of the USA and
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online. And remember, the Girl Scout Program Goals address a girl's
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individual needs and potential - this inherent flexibility is a recipe
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for success for girls of all abilities.
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A Leader Should:
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ASK parents, doctors, teachers, and the girl herself about the
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disability and any health and safety limitations. Learn about any
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allergies, triggers, and special concerns. Have a procedure in place for
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any kind of medical emergency. Do not be afraid to ask for special
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assistance, if needed.
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PREPARE the girls who are not disabled in the troop for what to
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expect when a new girl with a disability is joining it. For disabilities
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that interfere little with typical functioning, give the minimum
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information for girls to understand the condition. More explanation may
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be needed for visible disabilities or for those that affect a girl's
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ability to function.
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CHECK OUT meeting spaces, field trip sites, and transportation to
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make sure they accommodate individual needs.
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ADAPT the Girl Scout program to meet special needs as they arise.
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(Think ahead, and encourage girls to assist you in this effort.)
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* * * INTELLECTUALLY CHALLENGED/LEARNING DISABILITIES * * *
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>>Submitted by Barb, mailto:Mountklein8500@aol.com
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My son has learning disabilities. He is about as smart as he can be.
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The problem is that he processes information slowly, therefore most
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people misinterpret his knowledge (this same kid passed the learners
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after 2 tries). He has a learning disorder called Sensory Integrated
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Dysfunction. Basically it's a planning problem. If you give him
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several things to remember, he may remember part 5, 2 and 10 in that
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order. Understanding and patience would be the key in this. Sometimes
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remembering to give him the final outcome of an event, say the Civil
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War, and backing out of it helps.
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Helpful Websites:
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http://www.ldonline.org/
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http://www.dldcec.org/
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http://www.learningdifferences.com/
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http://www.ncld.org/
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--- PAGE 2 ---
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http://mentalhealth.about.com/library/h/docs/bld03446.htm
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http://www.ldanatl.org/ - Learning Disabilities Association of America
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* * * ADD/ADHD * * *
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>>Submitted by Carly, mailto:dysfunctionalmother@comcast.net
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My name is Carly and I'm a new Cadette. I made a web site for my Bronze
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Award project called http://www.understandme.org. It's where girls with
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ADD/ADHD can post about how their lives are affected by it and, their
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parents/Girl Scout Leaders can read some tips by my mom. I am hoping
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that you will help me spread the word. I would really like girls to
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share and Leaders to learn and share. I have a flyer on the site you can
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download. Thank you to anyone who takes the time to read this!
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>>Submitted by Lisa, mailto:emyers@gte.net
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For girls with ADHD, keep them moving and focused. Activities need to be
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short and tactile. Projects like making Gack work great, (You know the 2
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parts liquid starch one part white glue, add food coloring, and squish
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till thickens.)
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>>Submitted by BrownieTrp4110@aol.com
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My daughter has ADHD. She is on medication but she only takes it during
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school hours so by the time we have our meetings it has worn off. My
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solution is when my daughter needs to be corrected my co-leader does it
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for me. I keep her busy by having her sit with me or work with her and
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her activities. It doesn't away time with the other girls. It helps when
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my co-leaders corrects her, believe me that works when you have a
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co-leader that can step in and do that. She is a big help to my daughter
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and me. ADHD children need organization and steps to follow a routine;
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they need one at every meeting and through life.
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>>Submitted by Wendy, mailto:themama61@yahoo.com
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Two of my girls have ADHD and I always count on them to be my "runners".
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They go and get (so to speak) so they are not always expected to sit
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still. They also make great leaders of games. Take them off to the side
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and teach them so that they can teach others. If they are not always
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expected to be still they will do better when it is time.
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>>Submitted by Dianna, mailto:da_wolff@hotmail.com
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I'm the mom of two kids with ADHD and have had to deal with some pretty
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emotionally disabled kids over the years.
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One girl was undiagnosed for 2 of the 3 years she was with me and became
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worse and worse until she was institutionalized ... I can't imagine how
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the mom handled it. Needless to say the number one thing in this
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situation was communication with her mom about what the counselors
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encouraged us to do. Behavior contracts can be very helpful. I found
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--- PAGE 3 ---
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that giving this little girl "special" attention was helpful. I had to
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eventually sit down with her peers and explain that she was having
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problems that we couldn't see that were in the inside and I expected all
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her "sister" Girl Scouts to be patient and help her through this. Her
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behavior was bizarre and frankly I was happy to bridge her up after 3
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years. The other kids grew to hate her... she was stealing their stuff,
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lying and basically doing tons of things that she should not have been
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and it was very difficult for everyone. As a last resort I was
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getting to the point I was going to ask the mom not to bring her to
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meetings anymore because I was afraid of her hurting other girls. In no
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instance is a girl allowed to scare another girl in the troop.... When
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that happens the girl with the behavior problem MUST leave. The safety
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of all is most important.
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I make lots of calls to the parents reminding them since the girls are
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so forgetful. Yes I have over 20 girls and this can be time consuming,
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but it cuts back on the frustration. In order to try to help girls
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remember things like permission slips we instituted scout bucks last
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year. It did help and now my Senior troop wants scout bucks also... go
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figure! Of course you will hear pro's and con's on the scout bucks. We
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were very careful to make sure the rewards were for things in the girls
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control.... dues and money are NOT involved in the bucks system. Just
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things like remembering to bring permission slips, wearing vests and
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pins, bringing pencils etc.
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>>Submitted by Laura, mailto:REDHEDINKY@aol.com
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I have ADD/ADHD, my 4 kids have it, my husband and I both have dyslexia.
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I'm a Cubmaster at my sons' special ed school. My 7th grade daughter
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just started there this year. Here are my thoughts:
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Remember, not EVERYONE gets "diagnosed" with an attention problem. They
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can even be intermittent so one meeting a kid can pay attention and
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another they can't. They might be distracted by things in their personal
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life and not even have a "learning disability" but be exhibiting the
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signs.
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Another thing to remember when you are fed up and going to penalize a
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girl for being chronically late and you're furious with her parents for
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not being "responsible" -- the kid got it from somewhere! True some
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children have learning differences from some unknown source, but I can't
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tell you how many kids I work with at my children's school for Dyslexia
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and specific attention disorders who OBVIOUSLY got it from their
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parents! You DON'T "grow out" of these things, you learn to adapt and
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overcome.
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I am a VERY responsible person and simply have NO CONCEPT of time. I'm
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--- PAGE 4 ---
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38. I still haven't learned how to adapt and overcome my time issues.
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I've got organizational issues as well -- I can plan a campout for 150
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people with NO PROBLEMS. I can organize a badge workshop or Service Unit
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event for a hundred and the girls love it and things run smoothly. BUT,
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figure out a schedule to do my laundry or how often to clean the
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bathrooms, forget it! It is absurd, but that's how my brain functions.
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1. Keep things uncluttered and simple. Do not over-decorate or it will
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distract people with attention differences and make it hard for them to
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focus.
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2. Include QUIET activities before you want the kids to pay attention to
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something important. You may want to play soft classical music. The kids
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usually don't listen to it at home and it's different. It will get their
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attention just because it's a change in the normal music routine. Also,
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they probably will say they don't like it and that will raise their
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tension levels and help them pay attention.
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3. Follow the SAME routine for EVERY meeting. We do this with my
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dyslexic and ADD/ADHD Cub Scouts. If we change the least bit, a couple
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of them used to get REALLY upset and refuse to participate.
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4. Tell the kids what you are going to be doing ahead of time, review it
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at the beginning of the meeting (maybe during a snack time?), do the
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activity, then review it again.
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Example: Send home a monthly schedule saying what you'll do at each
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meeting. Tell the kids what the following meeting will be about. Week 1:
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"Today we're going to talk about knife safety." Ask who has ever used a
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knife before. This will help you establish who can help you lead an
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activity, who is excited, who is apprehensive and who might be AFRAID of
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a new activity. (Usually, if there is a strong reaction, the kid needs
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an adult to be their buddy.)
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Next do your talk, but give each kid something to hold or color while
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you are talking about knife safety. (They could color a paper knife that
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will be cut out and assembled at the next meeting.)
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Then get up and do some moving around -- maybe a song or fast paced game
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about knives. We use a LOT of relay races with my group. These races do
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not necessarily have any purpose other than to expel excess energy.
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Winning is NOT emphasized.
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Regroup, but in a different setting -- you were at the table before they
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expelled excess energy, so you could arrange chairs in a circle, move to
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a different area of the room, sit in a circle on the floor, etc..
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--- PAGE 5 ---
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Now you are ready to demonstrate knife safety and let the kids watch. At
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the NEXT meeting, THEY will get to demonstrate knife safety with their
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paper knives that they colored themselves earlier in the meeting. After
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your demonstration, let them play. They have concentrated enough for one
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meeting and need to do some silly and fun stuff. At the NEXT meeting,
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they will remember what you've taught then and be able to build on that
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knowledge. By the 4th meeting, you will have them cutting something with
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real knives, using safety circles, correcting each other on safety
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violations, etc.
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This type of procedure can be used for ANYTHING you are trying to teach.
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Building a fire, knife safety, sewing, pitching a tent, using a camera
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... anything!
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5. If someone is having a bad day, respect that and don't FORCE her to
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participate. They will join in when they are ready. Forcing them,
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glaring at them, or other "negative" attention will only feed their bad
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mood. BLOW IT OFF and don't let them steal your thunder! It's really no
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big deal if they want to sit at a table by themselves and pout. Tell
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them where they can go to be by themselves and that you'd love them to
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join you when they are ready.
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It took me half the year to figure out what was going on with my son's
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best friend in 3rd grade. He'd immediately say something was stupid and
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he wasn't going to do it. He was afraid of trying new things and didn't
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want to fail in front of all his friends. I told him he could go sit in
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the chair and do his homework if he didn't want to participate, but that
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I was tired of him calling the activities stupid. He'd always come over
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after he saw what was going on and felt confident enough to try it.
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FINALLY, I figured out what was going on. I asked him if that was it and
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he said yes, so, we agreed that I'd ALWAYS tell them what we were going
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to do and how we were going to do it before we did it -- I didn't have
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to change anything. You ALWAYS have to give the kids instruction before
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they do something, right? But, HE felt better and it gave him confidence
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that I wasn't going to let him make a fool out of himself.
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6. ESTABLISH EYE CONTACT and stop talking when the child looks away. If
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they don't look back as soon as you stop talking, remind them "Eyes on
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me" and start talking when they look back. You may find you are doing
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this little process several times before you can get one sentence out.
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BUT, the kids have probably heard it before if they have an attention
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problem and you are showing them that you understand how they work and
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aren't MAD at them. You are PATIENT and want them to UNDERSTAND.
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7. When you correct misbehavior, SAY WHAT YOU WANT them to do, not
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"Don't RUN!" The kids may only hear you say "RUN!!!" and take off. Go
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--- PAGE 6 ---
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ahead and laugh, but I've seen it a million times! I'm a yeller and it's
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was hard for me to redirect myself to say, "WALK!!!" instead of "DON'T
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RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!" Another good command is "STOP!" It applies to a
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plethora of behaviors.
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8. DON'T make all the kids in your troop READ in front of each other!!!
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Horror of horrors is all I can say. To help a kid with learning
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differences feel a part of the group and not like an idiot, make a
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general announcement that "I know some of you love to read out loud and
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some of you hate it. If you'd like a turn reading, let me know. No one
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HAS to read out loud." This also covers the bases for the shy girls. You
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will likely have more outgoing, attention seeking volunteers.
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9. DON'T make ALL the kids in your troop stand up in front of people.
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When we do ceremonies, some of the kids stand behind the other ones up
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on stage, hiding so no one can see them. I make them all get up on
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stage, but they don't have to stand in a nice neat orderly line so all
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the parents can see them. The shy ones hid and gradually, as they get up
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there more and more, they realize lightening will not strike them. Their
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comfort level increases and after 4 or 5 ceremonies, they are readily
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visible.
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10. Don't ASSUME they don't care about earning their badges. But don't
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FORCE badge work on them either. Remember their parents may have time
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and organizational difficulties just like they do. It might just be too
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hard for the families to combat behavior, family activities, schoolwork,
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and everything else to get those badge requirements done. The child may
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not be able to read the requirements themselves even if they are in 5th
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or 6th grade. You may even need to adapt the requirements slightly so
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the child can earn the badge or Try-it. I couldn't memorize when I was
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young and I still can't. If my leaders had waited for me to memorize my
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Promise and Law, they'd still be waiting today. I was also the Cadette
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who never finished that last requirement to earn by badge. I didn't want
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to bother with the reading. I didn't want any MORE school work. It was
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just too much stress and trouble to bother with for me. You may have
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kids like that too. You can help them by taking them aside at a meeting
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or allowing a meeting every now and then for the whole troop to finish
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up badge work. Even though I didn't finish my badges as a Cadette, I
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still had a sense of accomplishment from scouting because we camped a
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LOT. I enjoyed that more than the work of badges. As long as the kids
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are learning and having fun, that is what is important.
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11. ALL kids (adults too) learn better using a multi-sensory approach.
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Involve as many senses in your training as possible.
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Make GIANT game boards out of sheets, shower curtains, tablecloths,
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--- PAGE 7 ---
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etc., and permanent markers. You can make a generic game board using a
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#10 can to make BIG circles, smaller cans for smaller circles, different
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size boxes to make rectangles, etc. You can use stencils if you are
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artistically challenged or just draw some things on there freehand. DO
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NOT OVER DECORATE THE BOARD! This will distract your kids with attention
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"differences" and make it hard for them to concentrate.
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To use canoeing as an example, here is how I'd make a game:
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1. Go through my training manual and pick out "vocabulary" words. Put
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all these words with definitions on one set of cards and label them
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"Vocabulary" on the back.
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2. Pick out all the different types of strokes. Put all these on
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"Demonstrate" cards. When you land on a Demonstrate spot on the board,
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pick one of these cards and the WHOLE GROUP has to demonstrate the
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stroke. You can also add how to put on a PFD.
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3. Make a generic board on a PLAIN flannel backed vinyl tablecloth with
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2 squares for my decks of cards. Make circles or squares on the board
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for a path to get from Start to Finish. Color some of the spots a
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special color. When a player lands on one of them, they get to pick a
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card from a special deck -- Wave cards and Life Rings in this case.
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4. Assemble 1 or 2 giant cubes and color the dots on them for dice.
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5. Cut out 4 to 6 paper canoes from colored paper to use as "men" and
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have them laminated.
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6. Make some "Wave" cards that have a scenario to act out. "You and your
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partner are in the middle of the lake and a storm comes up. What would
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you do?"
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7. Make some "Life Rings" cards to mix in with the Wave cards. These
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cards would contain safety related topics.
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8. I'd probably include 4 to 6 paddles and PFDs (Personal Flotation
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Devices) for the demonstration cards. If you have access to REAL items;
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that will only reinforce the retention of what you are teaching.
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Again, with this method, you can adapt the generic game board to ANY
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skill you are trying to teach -- knife safety, hiking (add some
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stretches to the demonstration cards), fire building (include real twigs
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or fun foam for demonstrations), cooking, sewing, anything!
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I was thinking of younger kids when I wrote the above. For older girls,
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remember they don't outgrow their learning differences. That girl who is
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always talking too loud? Maybe that's how loud she needs to HEAR things
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to be able to focus on them. The girl who's always interrupting? She
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probably can't control her impulses. Don't get mad at the girls, just
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say to yourself that they can't help it and what can YOU do to help
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them?
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Often, these kids get teased at school or made fun of for being
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--- PAGE 8 ---
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immature, having a low stress tolerance level, and/or get frustrated
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VERY easily. You can make an immature/frustrated girl your partner if
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she is bothering other kids. YOU will be kind to her and that is what
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she will remember, that her leader is nice to her; that an ADULT in her
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life thought she was WORTH teaching. She may not let YOU know it, but
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that's exactly what is going on. Gradually, as she gets the message from
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YOU that she's ok the way she is and you will still like her; that will
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translate to how she is with the other kids. The other kids will also
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see that YOU think she's ok the way she is and they can accept her too.
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So many kids think you have to be a certain way to be OK. By having a
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kid with disabilities around, your actions will show the other kids that
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it's ok to be different. There is a LOT of "same" in there too. To help
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emphasize the "same" play getting to know you games. You can find a lot
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on the internet. This will help break down the walls and start team
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building within your troop. Scouting is a GREAT place for kids with
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learning disabilities!
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* * * ASPERGER SYNDROME * * *
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>>Submitted by Kate, mailto:wishlisty@yahoo.com
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I have included info I saved from, I believe, AGS list on Asperger
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Syndrome. I am sorry now that I did not save contacts for postings, but
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I only planned this for personal use; never expected the need to share.
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>>1. STRUCTURE, STRUCTURE, STRUCTURE. Knowing what, when, and how
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something is going to happen is very crucial. What I did in the
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beginning of the year is we sat down decided what the rules would be.
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She needs to be nice to others, not blurt out things, etc. When she
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can't comply she would need to sit outside the room, until she felt
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better in control. Sometimes it helped sometimes it didn't. But everyone
|
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needed to know that this behavior would not be tolerated. The rest of
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the troop was aware of what was going on, and have been very supportive
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of her.
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But when things started taking a slide downward, it was back to the
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doctor for a med adjustment, and in my daughter's case, hospitalization.
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At times it is difficult for these kids to control their behaviors. That
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is where meds come in. If these behaviors are going on consistently,
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something more needs to be done, behavioral approaches can't always
|
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help.
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Have you seen her without her mother? My daughter can control things a
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little better when I'm not around. Have you talked to the troop about
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her disorder? How at times she may not be able to control things? This
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was very beneficial.
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--- PAGE 9 ---
|
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>>2. For a long time Asperger Syndrome was not recognized. I try and
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explain it to people that it is almost like a borderline Autism. I also
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say that people with this, well their elevator goes to the top floor but
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it skips a few floors in-between. For more information, go to
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http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/
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I have also seen this referred to as the "geek syndrome" -- that is,
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many high functioning people with Asperger's tend to become computer
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geeks. They seem to function well in that field (hint: try to channel
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interests in that direction).
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Some things about Asperger's: above average intelligence is one of the
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hallmarks, which makes it difficult as the people have the "smarts" to
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get into more trouble, but not the "wiring" to understand why. They
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really, really need structure and any deviance causes them to act out.
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My girl friend has an Autistic son and an Asperger's son and just moved.
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All I can say was chaos reigned for several weeks afterwards until the
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two settled into their routine. Asperger's get a "passion in life",
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sometimes 2. Everything else takes a back seat to that passion. They
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also tend to be incredible pack-rats.
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Many people with Asperger's syndrome are Celiacs -- that is allergic to
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wheat and anything that has wheat or barley in it (that includes
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mustard, mayo, ketchup and you wouldn't believe what else). My
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girlfriend put all her sons on a Celiac diet and within 3 months you
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could see a real improvement in behavior. A word of warning, most
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doctors don't believe in this -- she fought with her doctor for several
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years before he accepted her assessment of the situation. Also, when you
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put a person with Asperger's on the Celiac diet at first they will get
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worse. It is easier with an older person with Asperger's as after a
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while they will realize that they feel better without the wheat than
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with it. Do a search on celiac, there are several lists also for this.
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>>3 .I had a girl about 7 years ago that wasn't diagnosed with
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Asperger's and we didn't know what to call it back then. One of the
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things we did was talk to her A LOT. We said "you are such a pretty girl
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when you smile, smile once during every meeting." We slowly increased
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that request. By the end of the year she was actually a pleasant girl to
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be around.
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Remember . . . . you are a sister to every Girl Scout. I WILL NOT
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TOLERATE any behavior that deviates from this. No picking on each other.
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It takes about 6 weeks for new girls to adjust to this. However, it
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slowly dawns on them that while it means they can't pick on other girls,
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guess what, other girls can't pick on them! Aha!!! I know some leaders
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tell me that it is not practical to demand this behavior. The girls will
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--- PAGE 10 ---
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behave as you expect them to behave. More I can't say.
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>>4. Children with Asperger's need the social interaction with their
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peers that organizations such as Girl Scouts provide.
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It may help you to look at the girl with Asperger's in a different
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light. One from how much this girl has achieved rather than how far she
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has to go. I speak from experience because my 9 year old son has
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Asperger's and is in Cub Scouts. When my son was 4 his speech was
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unintelligible, his eye contact was minimal, and he had no friends. Now
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at 9, he reads at the high school level (or above), has excellent eye
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contact and has a couple of good friends. His ability to take turns has
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greatly improved and due to a fantastic, loving teacher, 3rd grade was a
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good year in school. He still has a very limited diet (only eats cereal,
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peanut butter on toast or crackers, chicken tenders - not nuggets, and
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fries) and he has great difficulty with team sports. His particular
|
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sensitivities are to sounds and smells. Other children with Asperger's
|
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may be hypersensitive to touch (even textures), temperatures, and light,
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as well.
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I suggest that you first sit down with the girl's mother to discuss her
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daughter. Ask her about her daughter's history and the things she has
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achieved that she didn't think were possible - I guarantee you there are
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many. Then, ask her what her ultimate goal for her daughter is - our
|
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goal for our son is that he eventually becomes indistinguishable from
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his peers during normal everyday interactions. Hers may not be so grand
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or may even extend to total recovery depending upon her philosophy.
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Next, ask her if there are any specific areas they are currently working
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on with their daughter that you can help with or that can be achieved
|
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through Girl Scouts.
|
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People with Asperger's tend to become fixated on certain things. For
|
||||
instance, my son prefers the number 5 and the color blue. We use to HAVE
|
||||
to accommodate this fixation, but now it is not as important - we let
|
||||
him decide. Right now he talks endlessly about time machines, chemistry
|
||||
formulas, and black holes. Other kids think he is strange and tend to
|
||||
avoid him. He has made a couple of close friends that put up with his
|
||||
odd behaviors because he can be very interesting and a lot of fun if
|
||||
given the chance - and of course, their parents teach them tolerance and
|
||||
the value of having differences.
|
||||
I am sure there are those that think he is spoiled, difficult, and
|
||||
temperamental. Fortunately there are also those that recognize that he
|
||||
is an amazingly bright child that has a mind that sometimes refuses to
|
||||
cooperate with him. Most children with Aspergers that lash out do so
|
||||
because of provocation. They are NOT stupid and resent being treated as
|
||||
|
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--- PAGE 11 ---
|
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such by other children and adults. In fact, many children with Aspergers
|
||||
are extremely bright and usually excel in one or more subjects because
|
||||
of their innate ability to concentrate (fixate) on one subject for
|
||||
extended lengths of time.
|
||||
I would end the conversation with the girl's mother by focusing on two
|
||||
topics. Preparation and Discipline. When preparing for meetings
|
||||
specifically plan how best to include her daughter and what to do when
|
||||
her daughter simply can not participate in an activity. What alternate
|
||||
activity can she do while the rest of the group continues on? Can she
|
||||
help set up the next activity, read a book she has brought, etc?
|
||||
Discipline - How does she handle it with her daughter? What works best
|
||||
with her daughter? Are their certain methods that work and others that
|
||||
do not? What goes for one does NOT go for all. Every child has his or
|
||||
her own differences and responds to different methods of discipline.
|
||||
Long lectures with a child with Asperger's are usually useless. The
|
||||
consequences for our son usually involve removing television viewing
|
||||
(fixates on cartoons) and/or Legos for serious offenses - hitting
|
||||
someone, etc. For minor offenses, a short time-out. Consistency is the
|
||||
key.
|
||||
Do not expect the child to meet your expectations when/if she
|
||||
apologizes. Many children with Asperger's have not mastered the ability
|
||||
to "show" genuine sorrow on their faces. If you receive an apology do
|
||||
NOT insist on a better one. Accept the one you were given just as you
|
||||
usually would and try to withhold judgment on the adequacy of the
|
||||
apology. Let her mother decide what is genuine or not since she knows
|
||||
her daughter.
|
||||
Also, do not assume the child is on medication. Many children on the
|
||||
spectrum are not on any medication.
|
||||
Some suggestions: With the mother's permission, discuss her daughter
|
||||
with the other girls (and maybe the other parents). Remind the girls
|
||||
that EVERYONE needs and wants friends and the importance of being a
|
||||
friend to every Girl Scout. Some friends are not as easy as other
|
||||
friends, but that does not make them less important or less valuable.
|
||||
Explain that people with Aspergers, unlike say a quadriplegic, is
|
||||
something wrong on the inside. Just because you can't see it doesn't
|
||||
mean it is there and doesn't mean that the child can do anything about
|
||||
it. Just like a quadriplegic can't walk just because she wants to. You
|
||||
may want to try blindfolding the girls and handing them sticks to guide
|
||||
themselves across the room or to lace their shoes. Another idea involves
|
||||
using ear plugs AND ear protection headgear while they try reading the
|
||||
lips of their partner. You can't really duplicate the Asperger
|
||||
|
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--- PAGE 12 ---
|
||||
experience, but you might be able to show your girls that empathy and
|
||||
understanding are always preferable than fear and avoidance.
|
||||
If applicable, have all the girls fill in a "Favorites" sheet without
|
||||
their names on top and then have them try to figure out which sheet
|
||||
belongs to which girl.
|
||||
Give the girls some ideas on how to help include the child with
|
||||
Aspergers and how to deal with things they don't like. If the child with
|
||||
Asperger's hits them, rather than hit back, say, "Please don't hit me on
|
||||
the head, it hurts me when you hit me." Language with a child with
|
||||
Asperger's needs to be very specific, not vague. "Don't hit" is too
|
||||
vague.
|
||||
I know it sounds like a lot to expect from young girls, but I bet the
|
||||
girls will surprise you if you just help them find ways to include the
|
||||
child with Aspergers. For instance, you may assign the "Leader Helper"
|
||||
for the day to be the one to go out of her way to help the child with
|
||||
Asperger's to participate. Of course, the child with Asperger's mother
|
||||
should be agreeable to this.
|
||||
Use a buddy bin to "pair-up" the girls for group activities rather than
|
||||
having the whole group
|
||||
congregate together. We use a coffee can with Popsicle sticks (names
|
||||
printed on them). Children with Asperger's tend to have problems in
|
||||
groups - so break your group up in smaller settings whenever possible.
|
||||
Try to tailor one or two activities in areas of interest to the child
|
||||
with Asperger's - if she is capable, let her lead the group in that
|
||||
activity. Children with Asperger's like structure and control so they
|
||||
know what to expect and how to behave. Some days my son will tell me his
|
||||
head is acting all funny inside - some days are worse than others for
|
||||
him. He can't help it, so we do what we can to accommodate him and help
|
||||
him to function better. If it is his day to lead an activity and he is
|
||||
having a bad day, we change it to another day - Flexibility and planning
|
||||
helps.
|
||||
Something as simple as changing the room you are meeting in may solve a
|
||||
host of behavioral problems - the noise level or the lighting may be
|
||||
affecting her behavior.
|
||||
* * Down Syndrome * * *
|
||||
Submitted by R. Jingle, mailto:
|
||||
For a Girl Scout with Down Syndrome, how about a buddy? One of the
|
||||
kapers for each meeting is that one of the girls works directly with the
|
||||
young lady with Down Syndrome as her buddy for that meeting. The helping
|
||||
|
||||
--- PAGE 13 ---
|
||||
buddy realizes that she helps, not does for. This may mean that the
|
||||
helping buddy will not get the craft or activity done for themselves.
|
||||
The leader needs to make sure to there's a way for the girl with Down's
|
||||
Syndrome to be a helping buddy too (help the leader greet new members of
|
||||
the troop, show them where to put their things, etc.) Of course all of
|
||||
this hinges on the level of independence and functioning the girl with
|
||||
Down Syndrome has.
|
||||
The helping buddy idea can work for any girl who needs special
|
||||
accommodations, extra hands and legs.
|
||||
Create a troop language that indicates when a girl needs special
|
||||
assistance. Maybe if she says "butterscotch pudding", everybody know
|
||||
she needs help going to the restroom or if she says "kites fly high"
|
||||
that she needs someone another hand. If the girl is nonverbal what are
|
||||
the signs she uses to communicate with her caregivers? How can those
|
||||
signs be incorporated into the troop's vocabulary?
|
||||
Submitted by Katy, mailto:furryfeathers@mindspring.com
|
||||
My daughter is 13, almost 14, going into her second year of Cadettes.
|
||||
I've talked with members of our council staff, and they all have
|
||||
encouraged me to keep my daughter as involved as possible. A couple
|
||||
things we have done are...
|
||||
1. I have an assistant leader whose main responsibility is helping my
|
||||
daughter while we are planning. She can plan, to some extent, even if
|
||||
it making a choice between two choices. This other leader may even be
|
||||
taking my daughter camping next month, to an older girl event, where
|
||||
they will plan an event for Brownies. I took her last year, and she
|
||||
loved it. This would be the first time my daughter camped without me.
|
||||
2. Find something the girl wants to be involved in. My daughter is
|
||||
mostly non-verbal, but loves to sing! She is active in the council
|
||||
choir, and gets excited about practice, as well as performances. This
|
||||
will also be her council committee, when she gets to Senior Girl Scouts,
|
||||
and needs to be on a committee for one of the pre-requisites. They do
|
||||
ask the Cadette and Senior members of the choir to come early for
|
||||
planning purposes once every few months, so this is legit for her.
|
||||
3. Be flexible. Will the girl in your troop finish the requirements to
|
||||
the same level as some of the other girls? Probably not. But will she
|
||||
learn something from each activity? Hopefully she will. While working
|
||||
on the Safety Award, the other girls had a requirement about making a
|
||||
list of emergency numbers, to take with them when they baby sit. My
|
||||
daughter learned to dial 911. For her, this was very hard, but now,
|
||||
quite an accomplishment. We made a game of it, and the other girls in
|
||||
the troop ask her sometimes, "Who do you call for a fire" she answers
|
||||
|
||||
--- PAGE 14 ---
|
||||
"911". If they ask, who do you call if your sick, she still answers,
|
||||
"Mom!" But she knows the difference between an emergency and just
|
||||
being sick, so this is wonderful.
|
||||
A lot of keeping a girl with a disability in your troop depends on your
|
||||
outlook, and that of the other girls in the troop, and even in the
|
||||
service unit. Honestly, it is why I first became a leader. My daughter
|
||||
wasn't welcomed into the first troop we tried, and I wanted her to be a
|
||||
part of Girl Scouts. So I got involved. Girls who join my troop are
|
||||
told up front about my daughter, and are given the option of another
|
||||
troop, if they aren't comfortable with working with my daughter. Best
|
||||
of luck!
|
||||
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